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Resources for Adoptees
• Who am I Really? Who Am I Really? Podcast by Damon L. Davis(whoamireallypodcast.com)(https://www.whoamireallypodcast.com/)
• Adoptees On: Adoptees On(https://www.adopteeson.com/)
• The Adoptee Next Door: Podcast — Angela Tucker(https://www.angelatucker.com/podcast)
• Adoptee Thoughts: Delving into the nuances of adoption. (adopteethoughts.com)(http://www.adopteethoughts.com/)
• What Next? The Adoptee Rights Podcast: What Next? The Adoptee Rights Podcast on Apple Podcasts(https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-next-the-adoptee-rights-podcast/id1604433633)
• The Primal Wound by Nancy Verrier
(https://www.amazon.com/Primal-Wound-Understanding-Adopted-Child/dp/0963648004)
• Written by an adoptive mom and psychologist, the book discusses pre-and perinatal psychology, attachment, bonding, and loss.
• The primal wound is defined as the preverbal trauma of all adoptees who have experienced separation from their birth mother.
• Attachment, bonding, trauma
• All You Can Ever Know by Nicole Chung
(https://www.amazon.com/All-You-Can-Ever-Know/dp/1948226375/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1HY26624R11SQ&keywords=all+you+can+ever+know&qid=1680806420&s=books&sprefix=all+you+can+ever+know%2Cstripbooks%2C134&sr=1-1)
• Nicole Chung is a transracial Korean adoptee form Seattle. This memoir details her adoption and reunion journey.
• Transracial adoption, motherhood, reunion
• Through Adopted Eyes by Elena Hall
(https://www.amazon.com/Through-Adopted-Eyes-Collection-Adoptees/dp/0692161090/ref=sr_1_1?crid=SXKVRL0RI7R2&keywords=through+adopted+eyes&qid=1680806462&s=books&sprefix=through+adopted+eye%2Cstripbooks%2C120&sr=1-1)
• Elena is a Russian international adoptee who has compiled the stories of other adoptees.
• Elena also has written Through Adopted Hearts for adoptive and birth parents and Adoption is Both for young adoptees.
• Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew by Sherrie Eldridge
(https://www.amazon.com/Twenty-Things-Adopted-Adoptive-Parents/dp/044050838X/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=twenty+things+adopted+kids+wish+their+adoptive+parents+knew&qid=1680806500&s=books&sprefix=twenty+things+adopted+kids+%2Cstripbooks%2C125&sr=1-1)
• Written by an adoptee. This book details feelings adoptees often experience but may not feel comfortable to talk about.
• Grief, loss, adoptee needs
• Closure – Angela and Bryan Tucker
(https://closuredocumentary.com/)
• this tells the story of transracial adoptee Angela Tucker searching and reuniting with her birth family.
• Available for free on Tubi (https://tubitv.com/movies/372430/closure?start=true)
• The Adopted Life – Angela and Bryan Tucker
(https://www.youtube.com/@TheAdoptedLife)
• Transracial Adoptee
• Available for free on YouTube
Instagram
• @therapyredeemed ()
• Cam Lee Small, LPC
• Korean Adoptee
• Offers support groups for adoptees
• Focus on culture, racism, identity
• @adopteesconnect ()
• Run by domestic adoptee Pamela Karanova
• Provides peer-lead support groups, creating validating spaces for adult adoptees
• @adoptionmosaic ()
• Creates space for adoptees to connect and learn
• @mtrimble_lmhc ()
• Maria Trimble, LMHC, LPC
• Transracial adoptee
• Posts about adoption and mental health
• Adoptee Reading(http://adopteereading.com/overview/)
• Adoptee Rights Law Center (https://adopteerightslaw.com/)
• An adoptee-centered law center that details state laws regarding original birth certificates, citizenship, personal information
• Adoptees United Inc.(https://adopteesunited.org/)
• Information about currently adoption legislation
Beyond Words Psychological Services
• Adoptee Therapist Directory (https://growbeyondwords.com/new-york/)
Syracuse
• Nurturing Connections Family Therapy (https://www.nurturingconnectionsfamilytherapy.com/support-groups/)
• Michelle VanHatten, LMFT, CTP
• 513-781-9764
• 5016 West Genesee St. Camillus, NY 13031
• Offers counseling for Counseling for Families and Adopted/Foster Children
• Individual and family counseling
• Adoptive Parent support groups
• Healing for Joy(https://healingforjoy.com/)
• Katie Arney-Rattray, LCSW, CCTP
• katie@healingforjoy.com
• 315-288-6849
• 2700 Bellevue Ave, Syracuse NY 13219
• Offers counseling for Adoptive/Foster Families
• Individual, family, group therapy
• Teletherapy
• Walk and Talk therapy
• Certified Clinical Trauma Professional
• Connected Treasures (https://connectedtreasures.org/)
• Katherine Wheeler, LMSW
• 315-758-0587
• katherinewheeler@connectedtreasures.com
• Offers counseling for adoptive/foster families
• Individual, family, group therapy
• TBRI (Trust-Based Relational Intervention)
• Certified Clinical Trauma Specialist
Rochester
• True Story Counseling(https://www.truestorycounselingservices.com/)
• Catie Samantha Peck, LMSW
• 585-488-5515
• truestorycounselingservices@gmail.com
• 144 Village Landing #287. Fairport, NY 14450
• Adoption Center of Upstate NY (https://affcny.org/sobraske-afctn/)
• John Sobraske, LMHC, LMFT
• 585-746-7695
• 11 State St, Suite 204. Pittsford, NY 14534
• Adoptee, adoptive parent
• Offers counseling and other post-adoption support
• Individual and family counseling
• Reunion guidance and support
• Attachment and trauma informed
• Tree of Hope Counseling (https://www.treeofhopecounselingrochester.com/)
• Lisa Maynard, LMSW, ACSW, TCTSY-F
• treeofhopecounselingrochester@gmail.com
• 585-500-9420
• 2300 East Avenue. Rochester, NY 14610
• Has extensive experience and training with adoptive families
• Individual, couple, family counseling
• Adoption competent and attachment and trauma informed
• Virtual
• Tessa F. Hudson, LCSW
• NY and CA
• Offers teletherapy only
• Individual and process groups for birth parents, expectant parents, and adoptive parents
• Tessa is an adoptee and has experienced infertility
• Just a Little Step (https://www.justalittlestepllc.com/)
• Tania Vargas, LCSW
• 929-552-8126
• Based in NYC
• Sliding scale
• Latinx and Spanish-speaking
• Offers teletherapy in NY and NJ
• Individual and family counseling
• Trauma-informed and has experience working with adoptive/foster families
*Please note that resources listed on this page may not reflect the views of New Hope Family Services.
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